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Question #1:

would yahoo send me a letter to change my email passwords?

THISI S THE LETTER I RECEIVED TODAY ..ANY TRUTH TO IT AN SHOULD I DO THIS ?

Dear Account Owner,
It has come to our notice that your email has not passed the verification/Update process that we are presently working on. We are currently upgrading our data base and e-mail account center .We are deleting all Old Web mail email account to create more space for new accounts.. To prevent your account from closing you will have to update it so that we will know that it's a present used account. To complete your account re-confirmation, you must reply to this email immediately and enter your account details as requested below.
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Email User-name :
EMAIL Password :
Date of Birth :
Country or Territory : States
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IMPORTANT :

This updating is compulsory as a result of our recent server changes. If you fail to update your email address you will soon be unable to receive/send mails.Also your email will not be equipped with the latest anti-virus system in our new servers. This will make your email and PC vulnerable to virus attacks from the internet.
****HOW TO UPDATE:

To update simply reply the above to upgrading admin as appropriate. Failure to do so immediately will lead to SUSPENSION OF YOUR ACCOUNT.
Thanks for your co-operation,
Web-mail Administrator
WEB MAIL BETA

Question #2:

My First Stand-Up Lines?

Hello everybody!
Most comedians will start the show by saying Hows everybody doing! followed by asking everybody if their ready to laugh or something like that. I always think to myself the people that scream Yes! must be darn optimistic, not like me of course. I actually attempted to create comedy insurance, that way I could get get my money back after watching a show that felt more like a wedding.

Im not a big fan of weddings, they just remind me how lonely I am. that's why I spend most my time internet dating, I do most of that on twitter. I followed a girl once, it ended with me getting a restraining order.

I have a few other tricks up my sleeve, I sometimes carry a cane around with me, it makes me look like doctor house. This lets me walk into hospitals and say to the women there, ''hey, im a gynecologist'' of course im not qualified to do this, and I suspect this resulted in quite a few unexpected deaths.

I needed therapy as a child, apparently I have a repressed memory. They say I murdered a therapist. I also tried to do a stand up show recently, but apparently you can only have two people on jail visitation days.

Im writing my own self-help book. I discovered how to get rich quick using only three items, a gun, a balaclava and a fast car.

When I was young, I was quite the history buff, me and my friends would do role play games, our favourite was FRENCH MILITARY. Well I think it was our favourite, I would ask them but obviously they all died. We actually had to hire a sweatshop to sow us enough white flags.

My favourite board game is monopoly, I actually hate playing it, but the money works great on the old people at supermarkets.

So... thank you for reading, I understand this was probably quite bad, but it is my first try.

thank you.

Question #3:

My Old work colleague is stalking me!!?

I Worked with this guy 5 years ago and hadn't been in contact with him since then until early last year..he added me to facebook.. we we're cool just catching up and stuff and i told him i had a bf and a kid now ..he said he's single and goes on holiday with his boys alot and blah blah blah and it was fine just two old friends catching up...anyway a few months later the contact kinda fizzled n he kinda just stayed on my fb Friends list. then around the same time my fb got hacked by hackers n i had to make a new one..when i made a new 1 i couldn't remember half the ppl that was on the old 1 so i just added back family n close friends. eventually he found me again n just asked 4 my number so i gave it to him n we text sometimes. then it got to a stage where he was texting me about 25 times a day n i was getting pissed off so i told him to cool it cos my bf will start to get suspicious..he said ok but kept textin asking questions like "where are u" and "what u up 2?" ...he was so weird so i asked why he contacts me so much n he just said cos ur cool,,i said ok but respect my wishes n stop with the texts your not my man! ..he never stopped so i changed my number! after that it was cool for months..never heard from him.. then one day he emailed my SISTER (who he has never met) and said "my names micheal ______ i work for a recruitment agency and your cv/resume is registered 2 us.. and i recognised your last name so i looked up your address on the internet and saw the people who used to live in your household.. i don't have a job match for you or anything but do you have a sister called kaylei _____?" my sister freaked out and called n told me..by doing that didn't he abuse his work position???? she emailed bk n told him he was out of line and he ignored her then we haven't heard from him since! that was last year september and now yesterday he emailed me but i never opened it...whats weird is that i've NEVER given him my email address! wtf is wrong with him..why wont he leave me alone..and what should i do??

thanks

p.s we have NEVER dated, flirted or had any type of relationship before..nothing.
I didnt tell my bf because he'd probably hunt him down and finish him lol..no seriously he would.

Question #4:

An old work colleague is stalking me! 10 Points!!!?

Question #5:

Why he keeps doing this?? Advice please!?

I'll try to keep this short and detailed. I just need some advice from people. That's what my therapist recommend me to do. To do this thing because I wasn't alone in this. This is pretty much a relationship problem. I'm 16 and I have been dating my ex boyfriend for a year. He is 21.

And please do not send me rude comments about this. Age doesn't matter, you fall in love when you don't even expect it. So please keep it to yourself.

His problem is that since we have been dating..he keeps lying to me over and over. He has make me so many promises and he has also swear on his dead nanny that he would stop! And it wasn't true. I have give him a lot of chances..a lot..is not because I am dumb. Is because I have always have hope for him to change, but it just doesn't happen. There is another problem that he been flirting with girls on his facebook, but he thinks I don't see it. He quickly deletes his messages. He been saving picture of many girls on his laptop or even his cellphone then he tells me is his brother who does it. He has trouble to face the truth. I always get proof, but still he is an asshole to deny things. Another problem is that..he would always...always keep watching porn and nude girls on internet. Then lies to me about him stop. Yes, I consider myself a jealous girlfriend. I wasn't a jealous person at the first...till he started doing this. He has made me transform into an insecure and jealous girl. Every time, I try to talk to him. He is a guy who wont talk to me calmly. He always yelling! Not to metion that yes he has hit me..but he regret it..and I forgive him that too.

I really need some advices. What should I do!? I keep going back to him, chasing him. But we are not together for a week now..

Question #6:

What do I say to her when I call?

I don't know where to begin because it is a long story but this is near and dear to my heart. I have been in love with this Indian female for over two years now. I am a white italian male. We met in a bar and became friends over time. She was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen in my life. She was in a bad relationship that has been on and off for many years. He was basically a 29 y.o. with no direction in his life who partied, cruised the internet and smoked pot. He treated like she was a nobody and even told her that she would always be last in his life. She thought he was just acting this way. As time went on I fell in love with the real her and not the low self esteem person she had become because of being with this guy for so long. Deep down I know she had feelings for me because her initial reaction was to always accept my offer to go out but then she would tell me she couldn't because she had a boyfriend. As we became more involved she started to initiate all of our contact. To make a long story short she eventually chose him over me and we went our seperate ways. I have been asking GOD for 13 months to help her and recently I found out that he did. I used to follow her on twitter but then I stopped because the pain was too strong and I couldn't handle it. Yesterday something told me to go and check her tweets again and I found out she is no longer with him and has changed jobs. Later on in the afternoon I felt something again and this time something told me to go and check the same dating site I have a profile on and see if she was there and she was.

Question #7:

Why do some good girls get treated like crap?

I sometimes wonder what the purpose of me seeing and hearing about girls getting pushed around and letting it happen to them. For one, i know that most girls i see just dont know how to stick up for themselves. Like in class one time, this guy who already has a gf took a pic of a girl who didnt notice and she was like, "why would you do that". Thats it. A crappy pic that could be posted all over the internet. Other situations like girls getting punked where a guy sticks his hand up a girls bra before she can react. Also guys always grab girls butts all the time at school and the girls dont like it but dont do anything about it. Why not tell?

The worst thing of all is playing girls only to f*ck em when they only want to be serious. Sluts are a different story. Girls get played ALL THE TIME. only like 5% of guys who date do seriously if not less.

I just cant see what good you get out of hurting women. I try to treat them better than they treat me. And girls love me. I love them too. But im just one guy. I always hear about girls getting harassed about sex. "are you ready yet? when can i have my wack sucked?" Why not just respect the way she feels and wait? I would always respect the womans choice and not make her feel uncomfortable through pressuring. They are the most beautiful things put on Earth. And yet most are trashed. What is the purpose of this? Abusing women like they are toys?

Question #8:

Meeting my Online Boyfriend For the First Time?

Some background information.. We met each other on a gaming site. He sent me a request to be friends in August, but we never talked until September. We've been dating since September 26th, 2011. The first day we started talking, to each other we talked for exactly, 7 hours straight. While we were getting to know each other he told me he lived in Milan, Italy and that he's moving to America to live with his cousins in August. I told him I lived in America, and asked him what city he's moving too. He said Henderson, Nevada. And that's where I live.. O.o So this was just.. A major coincidence. I couldn't believe I met someone who was moving here. What are the chances? And shortly after, we fell in love. He never formally asked me to be his girlfriend, it just happened..

I talk to him 4-10 hours a day.. Sometimes more.. I'm just hopelessly addicted to this boy, and we have a nine hour time difference.. We sort of, adjusted our lives to work away around this problem so we could spend more time together.. He stays up until 6am, on the days he has no school, and I stopped doing stuff after school, and I just go straight home and onto the computer. And for those who may have doubts, I know for a fact that he's legit. We've skype called, he showed me pics of his family, and videos. He sent me a teddy bear, flowers, and a shirt for Christmas, with the correct billing info. So I know he's real.

Just for review we've been together for a little over 4 months, and he will be moving here in 6 months.. I know we have a long wait ahead of us, and he still hasn't gotten his student visa accepted yet. But regardless, I'm still nervous as hell. And the worst part is, we have an age gap which is looked down upon by society. I'm currently fourteen, (turning fifteen in a week) and he's nineteen (turning twenty in two weeks.) My parents are aware that I'm talking to him, and his age. They are also aware that he is moving here, and that I am intending to meet him. But what they don't know is, that we are dating. Although they both confronted me, asking if we were in a relationship, and I denied, in fear that I would be ridiculed.. Most people act like the internet is unsafe, and that online relationships are for the lonely, and desperate.. That is why I'm afraid to admit it to my parents. Especially for the predator garbage. Sure, their has been cases, where a girl has gotten murdered, from meeting someone online. But the media obviously endorses that, because who would talk about someone successfully meeting someone online, unharmed? Most people on the internet are the average everyday person, like you and me. But unfortunately my mother doesn't believe so. Although, there's nothing wrong with taking precautions.

We're also both worried we'll disappoint each other, and feel like we won't meet each others expectations. We are also very insecure about our appearances, even though he's extremely attractive.... And we are both really introverted people in the real world. I hardly have any friends, and have trouble connecting with people my own age (this is probably why I always end up talking to older people online.) I can hardly communicate with people in general, (online and offline.) I actually suffer from social anxiety disorder, therefore I tend to avoid social situations at all costs. So I'll be having a hard time working up the courage to meet the love of my life.. It's so unbelievably nerve-wracking.. This is the reason why I'm asking for advice six months in advance.

So what I'm really wanting to know is, how should I prepare for meeting him? What are some tips on breaking the ice..? Where do you recommend I meet him? What are your own experiences on meeting someone online? How many friends should accompany me (if any?) Feel free to add anything else as well.

I'm currently thinking about meeting him at the airport. It's a bit more dramatic, and less awkward then going to the mall, or something.. I know my parents would never drive me, so I'm thinking about getting my best friend to drive me there, and meet me with him. Do you think this is a good idea? Any better suggestions? :)

By the way if you read this far, thank you so much for your time. I apologize, for getting rather lengthy with this question. <3
Sorry for the re-post, I just realized I selected the wrong category. .
Well the problem is, he's moving to a completely new country. He has no friends, excluding his cousins. I would be suspicious about him moving here, it seems crazy. But I didn't tell him what city I lived. I just asked him where he was moving too, and it just happened to be where I lived. It's not dodgy though, he showed me pictures of his family that lives here, and there facebook shows they live in Henderson. I seriously doubt he made 10+ facebook pages with over 500 friends each, just to trick me. Plus, he's moving to there house so he already told me the address, it's about 7 miles from mine. :)

Question #9:

Does anyone know any Valentine's special promotions from Amazon?

Valentine's date is coming, I just wonder anyone knows any valentine's special promotions on the Internet? Especially from Amazon, because I have a lot of gifts :)

Question #10:

Should I try calling her again?

Question #11:

my crush is getting way out of control!! i cant take it help someone?

im year 9 and i have the biggest crush on this guy in my year level :'( im 13 turning 14 real soon and he is 14 anyway i never really noticed him until my friend showed me his photo in the year book and i thought he was cute...i like cute guys with the kind face and he is the latino type (my type) which made me like him i told my friend i had to have this guy luckily my friend was really good friends with him and introduced us. he was very very shy though. I am shy sometimes but he seemed very shy it was a quick hello thing. My friend told him that i kind of liked him and that's when he started glancing at me like all the time. i would catch him staring he would look away i would continue staring he would catch me i would look away and so on this went on forever! So i went on the internet and looked up how to get a guys attention and it said social networking so i found him on facebook and sent him a friend request. we had a few conversations about music and other interests. occasionally he would ask really weird questions like this: me-well i love music him-really? me to me-yeah songs are great him-songs? you like songs?what songs btw???....almost like he was nervous of some kind. By the Time we had our third conversation on facebook i had seriously deep feelings for him. my friends were my own personal spies and they tried to gather information on him lie his interests and hobbies and stuff like that. i thought it was pretty clever. then that night on facebook we had our fourth conversation and i told him i liked him and he said he liked me to but didn't want to date then said ma bey in the future...well this has made me like him even more! i constantly dream about him even when im awake i still daydream about him. even in shopping centers i see him everywhere! its like those god movies and 'gods' face is on everyone....so on school holidays i went to this really nice place up at a beach lets say Perth* anyway i asked him how his holidays were and he said he went to perth* i started freaking out and was like 'lol me to!' And then i asked if he went every year and he said no then asked me that i said yes then he said that he wants to come to the place i stay at and he said hopefully i can stay there next year...then he had to go so he went and i started running up and down the house really excitedly you have no idea....! this crush is out of con troll tho one minuet im all happy thinking about him and the next im sad thinking about him. like im drawing pics of me and him having pic nicks in a beautiful Field then im listening to sad classical music crying my eyes out thinking about him...its like having my period except a crush version D: i dont no how to control my feelings :'(

Question #12:

Will the love I had for my husband come back?

I have been married to my husband for 18 years and had always loved him, I would have crossed to the other side of the world with him if it made him happy. We have 2 children aged 8 and 13. My problem came to a head in Dec 2010 when I found out that my husband had joined internet dating sites, but mainly looking for his first gay sexual experience. He never paid for these sites but I did find evidence of messages being sent. I tackled him when I found out and he said he had too much time on his hands and was curious, but nothing happened. He has done this before but using chat lines and dating phone lines, and I have caught him now 3 times in our marriage. As I loved him I always forgave him. However for at least 8 months now I have had this gut feeling that if he has done this so many times, then there must be more to it. He said he never wanted another man sexually, and just wants me. I am going to be 40 this year and wonder if this is the way I want my life to be. He has never had a high sex drive, and I have. I always felt I was begging him for sex, but now the tables have turned and as he knows my feelings have changed he is now trying too hard, cuddling me, pushing himself against me and always trying to initiate sex, but now I am the one who does not want him near me. I am trying so hard to want him sexually again, but feel more like he is my best mate. Will the love come back or has our relationship come to an end?

Question #13:

My boyfriend has a huge crush on that "Boxxy" girl?

If you don't know who "Boxxy" is, search it up on Google. She's an Internet girl, not really hot, yet quite cute and attractive. Guys love her.

I don't really mind if my boyfriend has some celebrity crush, I have those too, and it's fine. But it really annoys me that he puts her picture in his MSN profile picture (and all over his Facebook!). Even his Messenger user name is "boxxy babee". That b*tch is everywhere!
Also, his nickname says "i love you babe". According to him, it is dedicated to me... but it's kinda funny that there's a picture of her right next to those words.

I'm not jealous of a celebrity crush; it'd be ridiculous. But, is it really necessary to be so freaking obviously obsessed?

My sister says he might be trying to make me jealous. Could it be? I never told him anything, or even complained about a girl - we've been dating for two months or so.

Should I wait for him to forget about her? or should I tell him?
What do you think?

Thank you!
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Yeah, I know, it's pretty lame... imagine how I feel. :/

Question #14:

Has the internet taught me a really good lesson about how how bad racism in America is, even in big cities?

So if you do not know, I am the Indian guy that kept posting about Indian guy - White girl couples and if people have ever seen such a couple before. Thing is, I live in Alabama right now, people here are not that open minded. As an Indian guy myself I have had an overwhelming attraction towards White females BECAUSE ever since I was young they were thrown in my face by American media and magazines, I just find them attractive.

For wanting to date a White female, the following has happened:

1. I have received death threats from top contributors on here
2. I have been alienated
3. I have been told women hate currymen and all nasty names people call us Indians
4. I have been told to stick to my own kind

In a way, I always ask myself and I want to ask you this:

Is the racism I am receiving generally the thoughts of American society or just a small number of idiots with no lives? Will American society in general try to prevent me from dating the kind of women I want?

Question #15:

If love is true and deep, will she realise that I deserve her? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?

She is beautiful, I mean her heart, her mind - everything about her is so beautiful.. I met her through the internet.. We used to chat on facebook, and yahoo messenger - I still remember when I used to tell her everything, everything about me, my situation-past (I always felt as if we have been together since ages) I confessed my liking, my love, may be too fast (because I always confessed feelings and I always said what I meant..)

She possesses qualities of one in a million - her poems.. everything she does as a friend/more than a friend is charming, and more more mesmerising.. and I am very lucky that I have such a friend who cares about me so much.. I love her since over 2 years and I always wanted it to be more than being best friends - even at this point I don't know what she thinks about it? - I feel deep down she also likes me more than a friend. (she loves me as a friend!)

I love only her and no one else. I am sure if I marry I will only marry her and I had decided I wouldn't look for any other matches, means - no to dating, seeking marriage alliance except her (and she knows it well)

I would like to add - after so much time of no direct communication still I am head over heals, I am in so much love (not conditional) and she knows once she provides me an opportunity I will do everything/will be natural that I make sure she becomes happier.. (she can be at her natural best and express her all feelings, she can tell me everything she wishes and rest assured that our friendship, and my feelings wouldn't change..)

If she doesn't come - I am not gonna change my mind, and I will wait till the end of time living with her memories (& You know No questions asked even if you kill!)

So I know this is all about what I think, so what is the question??? Question is - If love is true and deep, I can remain hopeful that she will think about me, and providing me an opportunity so that she can realise I am worth her or I deserve her?

No rude comments, Please provide only positive & nice answers!

PS: she said she is from the same community, the same religion and the caste and she is a SC specialist if that helps!

If I am right, we saw each other and stared into each others' eyes and her eyes (that gaze was amazing!) were amazing!

Question #16:

Shady collection agency attempting to collect passed SOL?

My husband was sued by Cach LLC for zombie debt, but never knew he was being sued. We never received any letters or phone calls from them attempting to collect on the debt in the first place. We were never served a summons to appear in court – kind of hard to show up to a court date you know nothing about. Because we didn’t show up, Cach LLC was awarded a judgment against us for the amount of the original debt plus the cost of attorney’s fees and interest. Had we been contacted at all, I would have immediately sent a debt validation letter as the debt in question was passed the statute of limitations here in Texas (which is 4 years). Cach LLC would have had to prove that they legally had the right to attempt to collect this debt – which couldn’t have been proven as the SOL had expired. I then would have sent a cease and desist letter to bar them from further contact. However, they made no effort to contact us. Why? Because they knew the only way they had ANY hope of collecting on this debt was to successfully obtain a judgment. If you Google their name, the internet is chalk full of complaints against them and their affiliates due to their unlawful methods of attempting to collect. They didn't want us to know about the court date because if we showed up and told the judge it was passed the SOL the case would have been thrown out. It was DEPENDENT on us NOT showing up. So my question is: what can we do now? I am going to lawyer up and request that the default judgment be set aside, but what will the process be like afterward? And if a judge rules against them can they continue their pursuit?
Edit: We most definitely were NOT served at any time.

Question #17:

Having some major trouble with my life...?

I'm having trouble dealing with my life right now and for a number of reasons; and it's causing my Anxiety to sky rocket and be even more suicidal. The reasons being:

#1. School (the people at school)
#2. Family stuff
#3. My constant appointments for everything (orthodontist.. which I have today... and counseling.. which I had yesterday)
#4. Relationship issues.

The people at my school is either one or more of these things:

Fighters
Name callers
Drama starters
Smart kids.

And let me tell you... there is probably only 25% ACTUALLY smart kids there.... you do the math :/
The family stuff is basically that my mom is a bipolar bitch that doesn't know what is good for her EVER.. which is why I refuse to live with her under the count of my Anxiety Disorder...
My counseling appointments aren't horrible but going to the orthodontist (WHICH I HAVE TODAY) scares me...

And last but not least; My relationship issues. This is probably going to either make you laugh so hard you piss or your like WTF WTF WTF WTF....

Okay so yesterday it was just normal day.. I sat down at the school cafeteria and was using my ipod during breakfast and my friend from homework club come over and talks with me. She was talking about my bf tyler (tbh I waz gunno break up with him anyway but just keep reading) So she liked him a little and I said "We're dating.." and she was like a little bit surprised considoring your past.. but that's a different story... so the day goes on and during math I go to use the bathroom (science.. math.. I can't remember) But then Elissa come up to me (Okay it was math because we were also switching classes) and she told me that Tyler had asked her out and was still dating me. I wasfuriouss... So I got home fromcounselingg later on and decided I was going to have a little "chat" with that idiot. I guess what I kind of yelling because tyler was giving me the "fuck you" face and things got bad. He started LIEING to me about asking Elissa out and so I told him to go fuck himself... and he said the same back (fucking moron..) but yep....

My disorders are really getting in the way of my life but no one seems to truly understand.

I have Anixety Disorder and a form of Depression for sure and I also think I have PTSD.... I have some symptoms in each column of symptoms you need to have it but I don't feel like going to a doctor for it... And Sense my mom is bipolar (will probably never admit it anyways) is there a chance I might have bipolar disorder too? I need need simple symptoms though because I never understand the internet's version.... Help?
And if you think this is too long to read, then you obviously have never read a book

Question #18:

Could somebody out there please help me figure out these creationist arguments that 'disprove' an old earth?

The private school I attend funnels every scientific study and manipulates all forms of evidence to fit their very specific brand of fundamentalist Christianity. I can usually research things for myself to find out just how wrong my teachers actually are about stuff like this, but I had trouble finding answers to the following two points my "science" teacher gave to our class. I would really appreciate some help, fellow science geeks of the internet!

1) He claims that the Redwall limestone in the Grand Canyon is proof for Noah's flood because there are so many perfectly fossilized marine creature in the limestone. The only way for the really fragile creatures to stay in tact is with a catastrophic event.

2) He claims alll forms of half life chemical dating are incorrect because scientists do not take into account external factors (wind, rain, snow, etc) that could speed up the chemical decay. He also claims that at the university he attended a proffesorr carbon dated a recently killed squirrel and dated it at 14000 years.

Point number one I'm not really sure how to approach.

Point number two is easier. I think. When I pointed out to him that all types of chemical dating from all over the world all point to roughly the same age, he said,"They only point to the same age because scientists want them to." or something like that.

Also, could the squirrel thing be true?

Question #19:

I need advice. I want to start talking to him again. Please help?

Alright, so.. there's this guy that I met through the internet (tumblr). We became friends, and we had no intention of becoming anything more than that. We had soooo much in common, and we were constantly joking around and talking. After about a month of talking we started playfully flirting. It didn't seem like a big deal, but people kept sending me messages saying things like "are you two dating?". I always answered "No... he has a girlfriend" because at that time he did but his gfs parents hated him because he wasn't a "real christian" according to them so he never saw her. I began to develope feelings for him (which was weird for me because I had never had feelings for someone I met online). We started talking about more personal things, and sharing all of our secrets. We told each other everything. (even our relationship/dating problems). The flirting became a lot heavier but we both still denied having feelings for each other, even though looking back, it was INCREDIBLY obvious on both sides. We stayed up until 3 in the morning talking all the time. One day he wouldn't stop talking about this girl he was into (he had broken up with his gf at this point), and how she (the new girl he was into) wasn't replying to anything he sent her, and she was basicaly being a jerk. I tried comforting him but nothing worked. Eventually I got really jealous because I thought that he deserved someone who treated him better, and I DID treat him better, yet he was still going after someone else. So I sent him a message telling him how I felt and I told him I would understand if he didn't want to talk to me again and if he didn't have the same feelings. He replied and said he had feelings for me too, and he had them for a while, but things wont work out because we live so far away. I said "That's fine" and we continued talking like normal, but he was still into this other girl and he still came to me for advice about his situation for her. I couldn't take it anymore one day and I kinda made myself look really bad because I told him that he deserved better and that I've been here this whole time, treating him how he deserves to be treated, and he just wants this girl that treats him like he's garbage. He stoped talking to me. He deleted his tumblr. He deleted me off of his facebook. We didn't talk for half a year. Well, I added him and he actually accepted my friend request a couple months ago. He sent me a message that said "JOYYYYYY!!! :) I've missed you so much". So we started talking... but the conversation seemed so shallow. We avoided serious topics, and we didn't really joke around. Neither of us were acting like ourselves. Then we just stopped talking. I want us to be friends again... just friend. I can handle it this time. What should I do? Or did I ruin any chance of that ever happening again?

Question #20:

What do you think about my slumber party?

For my 12th birthday I decided to do a Spa Theme. Me and my friends are girly girls, so I wanted something that we would all enjoy and that was inexspensive but more than just a pizza-and-movies thing. This turned out to be a blast! INVITATIONS~~For the invites I bought some polka-dotted ones at Wal-Mart and wrote all the info on it, plus saying it was a spa party so bring your robes, slippers, and all your overnight stuff. On the outside of the envelope I put 'Its A Spatacular Spa Party!' I sent out the invites about 2 weeks ahead of time and had them RSVP. The RSVP cut-off date was five days before the party, which was a good cutoff date. I invited 9 girls (10 including me) but ended up with seven (8 including me) which was a really good number!DECORATIONS~~I did a color theme of purple and yellow. Upstairs, which was where we were gonna be eating and stuff, I had a purple tablecloth, yellow napkins, yellow plates, purple cups, purple silverware, purple&yellow streamers, and yellow balloons. The balloons I put on the back of every chair, and the streamers were just on the walls, over doorways, that type of thing. Then for the spa. We did it in my basement, which is fully furnished and middle-sized. On the door to the basement we put a sign that said: 'WELCOME TO THE SPATACULAR RELAXAATION SPA' and had a picture of a girl with a towel on her head and wearing a bathrobe and slippers. We just made that off of the computer and found the pic on the internet. Then downstairs we made it very relaxing. We had a big couch in the middle of the room with white sheets draped over it, and a matress to one side with another white sheet over it. We had little scented tea candles floating in bowls of water sat around, along with vases of fresh lilacs (which fit in well with the purple theme) that we got from my neighbor's bush (ASK FIRST!). We had pillows sitting around here-and-there, with a CD player playing relaxing music. It was overall very peaceful and nice looking! ACTIVITIES~~When the guests arrived we started by having cake and ice cream and presents, because two of the girls had to leave early. After that we went downstairs to start our SPA treatment! We had four stations, with my sister, mom, and sister's friend helping. Us girls divided up into four groups, two in each group (we did this by drawing names so no one argued) and each group did one station at a time, and after about 15 minutes, switched. STATION ONE was facials. My sister's friend ran this station. We got to pick from two different kinds of facial masks--pineapple peeling mask or oatmeal facial which you had to wash off. The facialist (aka sister's friend) put our choice on our faces, then put cucumbers over our eyes (this was funny!) and let us lay on the matress for about 13 minutes. Then we went upstairs, washed off our faces in the Ladies Only Bathroom" and came back down and went to STATION TWO. That was nails ran by my mother. One of us soaked our hands in the hand soak while the other got her nails painted (using super fast nail dry) finger nails buffed and decals on (optional). After the nails were done and dry the two switched and the other one got her nails done. After that we got to choose from three different kinds of lotion to put on our hands. While we were getting our nails done we had one these hilarious eye masks which was really funny and a good effect! Then we went to STATION THREE which was pedicures. Here was almost the same as manicures. One put her feet in a foot soak and the other got her toenails done. THen we switched and after that we got our choice of lotion to put on our feet. Then STATION FOUR! This one we made homemade lip gloss using petroleum jelly flavored Kool-Aid mix and little containers we found at the Dollar Tree. At first everyone thought it was gross but it turned out really cool! This was also an added favor. It took less time than we thought so we had everyone make two. All while the spa was going on we had a TV playing She's The Man so if anyone was bored while they were getting pampered (which did'nt happen by the way)they could watch that. We had it on really low volume with captions on so it didn't clash with the relaxation music. We also had High School Musical 3 Madagascar The Lizzie McGuire Movie Bolt and Camp Rock available to watch if anyone didn't like or wasn't allowed to watch She's The Man. All while this was going on my little sister walked aruond with a tray of food offering the girls something and calling them ma'am and being overly polite which was really funny (she's only 7!). After the spa treatment was done the two girls had to leave so they left and we gave them their goodie bags. Then we played our games. We chose what to play first by drawing to see which one to play.. After that we got in our PJs and made smoothies! We set out a smoothie bar and everyone got to pick what they wanted. By then it was pretty late.

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